Books I Love

Books I Love


Michael Todd

A candid, inspiring guide to finding lasting love by getting real about your relationship goals–based on the viral sermon series about dating, marriage, and sex.

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finding a balanced connection


Finding a Balanced Connection is an incredibly insightful book. It explains where some unhelpful threat/reward behaviours may originate from and what you can do to minimise these behaviours and maintain a healthy balance. Good mental health is all about balance. I found this book very motivating and inspirational and would recommend it to anyone who feels stuck in life. There is also a section on mindfulness, something that I believe is very important in today’s fast paced world. This book has great advice and helps empower the reader to make positive change. Highly recommended.

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Life Shocks

This is a brilliant book with an inspiring message. It helps to explain how we can overcome difficulties in life. Sophie Sabbage explains a very personal story and elucidates the difference between three kinds of lifeshocks we all receive: limiting lifeshocks which challenge our arrogance and appetite for control; exposing lifeshocks which challenge our affectations and pretences; and evoking lifeshocks which challenge our closed-heartedness.

A great read!

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Don't worry be happy

Does your child appear to worry a lot?

Perhaps they have frequent tummy upsets, or are irritable, tearful, angry or withdrawn? 

Do they have problems concentrating or show a loss of enthusiasm for their usual interests?

These could all be signs that your child is struggling with anxiety.

This practical guide combines proven cognitive-behavioural therapy methods used by child psychologists in schools with simple activities to help your child to overcome anxiety. It’s aimed at children aged 7–11 because a lot happens in these years that can impact a child’s emotional well-being, not just now but for years to come.

Your child will be guided, with the help of Fiz – a friendly and supportive character they can identify with – through fun and engaging activities which are interspersed with useful tips, inspirational statements and practical information for parents.

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You're a star

Does your child often feel isolated and do they struggle to get involved in social situations?

Are they nervous about what people think of them, or maybe they’re just a little unsure of how they feel about themselves?

These could be signs that your child is experiencing low self-esteem.

This practical guide combines proven cognitive-behavioural therapy methods used by child psychologists in schools with simple activities to help your child grow their self-esteem. It’s aimed at children aged 7–11 because a lot happens in these years that can impact a child’s sense of self-worth, not just now but for years to come.

Your child will be guided, with the help of Bop – a friendly and supportive character they can identify with – through fun and engaging activities which are interspersed with useful tips, inspirational statements and practical information for parents.

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Sapiens - A brief History of Humankind

One hundred thousand years ago, at least six different species of humans inhabited Earth. Yet today there is only one—homo sapiens. What happened to the others? And what may happen to us?

I absolutely loved this book. Fascinating information and hugely educational.

******I highly recommend this book. It puts a different spin on society and takes a bigger-picture look at life on planet Earth ******

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Underdogs misfits and the Art of Battling Giants

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I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It is inspirational in that it shows examples of the underdog taking on someone stronger – it is possible. I also love the real life stories, research and statistics. Hugely intriguing and so interesting that I finished it within days.

Learn How to Stop Procrastinating Today!

Do you feel like your potential is severely limited due to your procrastination habit?

Are you tired of the guilt, stress, and overwhelm that comes with procrastination?

Do you want to learn the secret to getting things done quickly and effectively, so that you can increase your success in all areas of life?

In this no-fluff and action-oriented book, you’ll discover the real reason behind your procrastination (there’s only one!) and you’ll find potent tools to help you overcome procrastination for good.

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After interviewing fifty of the world’s greatest financial minds, and penning the #1 New York Times best seller Money: Master the Game, Tony Robbins returns with a step-by-step playbook, taking you on a journey to transform your financial life and accelerate your path to financial freedom. No matter your salary, your stage of life, or when you started, this book will provide the tools to help you achieve your financial goals more rapidly than you ever thought possible.

Robbins, who has coached more than fifty million people from 100 countries, is the world’s #1 life and business strategist. In this book, he teams up with Peter Mallouk, the only man in history to be ranked the #1 financial advisor in the U.S. for three consecutive years by Barron’s. Together they reveal how to become unshakeable—someone who can not only maintain true peace of mind in a world of immense uncertainty, economic volatility, and unprecedented change, but who can profit from the fear that immobilizes so many.

To buy this book:      Tony Robbins’ Unshakeable: Your Financial Freedom Playbook

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Who Moved My Cheese: An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life

A short, concise book on how to deal with change. Well put and simple. This book will help you move forward and see change differently.

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Wherever You Are There You Are – Jon Rabat Zim

In Wherever You Go, There You Are, Jon Kabat-Zinn maps out a simple path for cultivating mindfulness in our lives, and awakening us to the unique beauty and possibilities of each present moment. Mindfulness (being in the moment) is one of the most powerful ways to change your life and reduce worries. This book shows you how.

man's search for meaning

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Man’s Search For Meaning: The classic tribute to hope from the Holocaust  (I love this book!)

This book had a profound impact upon me and I refer to it often in my sessions with clients. It is an extreme example of the human spirit and shows how we can overcome harsh realities by changing the way we look at it.

Psychiatrist Viktor Frankl’s memoir has riveted generations of readers with its descriptions of life in Nazi death camps and its lessons for spiritual survival. Between 1942 and 1945 Frankl labored in four different camps, including Auschwitz, while his parents, brother, and pregnant wife perished. Based on his own experience and the experiences of others he treated later in his practice, Frankl argues that we cannot avoid suffering but we can choose how to cope with it, find meaning in it, and move forward with renewed purpose.

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The Power Is Within You

My first self help book ever was a Louise Hay book “You can heal your life”. Ever since then I have always felt that Louise was ahead of her time. I recommend all her books but this one is another of my all time favourites. Louise encourages us to think of ourselves in terms of positives – what we do, not what we don’t; what we know, not what we don’t; what we are, not what we aren’t.

Tuesday's with Morrie

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Tuesdays With Morrie: An old man, a young man, and life’s greatest lesson (could NOT put this book down)

I was enthralled by this book and could not put it down. Reading it at every available opportunity, I finished it within a day or two. Filled with wisdom. Mitch Albom  rediscovered Morrie, his college professor from twenty years ago, in the last months of the older man’s life. Knowing he was dying of ALS – or motor neurone disease – Mitch visited Morrie in his study every Tuesday, just as they used to back in college. Their rekindled relationship turned into one final ‘class’: lessons in how to live.

the power of your subconscious mind
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The Power of Your Subconscious Mind

In The Power of Your Subconscious Mind, Dr. Joseph Murphy gives you the tools you will need to unlock the awesome powers of your subconscious mind. You can improve your relationships, your finances, your physical well-being. Once you learn how to use this unbelievably powerful force there is nothing you will not be able to accomplish.

feel the fear and do it anyway susan jeffers
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Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway: How to Turn Your Fear and Indecision into Confidence and Action

This book offers wonderful practical exercises to help you apply the theory. I have revisited this book many times. Whatever your anxieties, Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway will give you the insight and tools to vastly improve your ability to handle any given situation. You will learn to live your life the way you want – so you can move from a place of pain, paralysis and depression to one of power, energy and enthusiasm.

Thich nhat hanh books
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Fear: Essential Wisdom for Getting Through The Storm

Renowned Zen master and Buddhist monk, Thich Nhat Hanh, explores the origins of fear and offers detailed practises on how to deal with its often toxic presence in our lives. Formed by a lifetime of mindfulness in action, he also shows us the path to peace, happiness and freedom that can come out of such explorations.

stop thinking start living richard carlsson
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Stop Thinking, Start Living: Discover Lifelong Happiness (Book Artwork May Vary) (most recommended to my clients)

A fantastic book that cuts through all the nonsense and shows you how to live a,ife with less complexity and mental torture! Revolutionary in its simplicity and accessible to all, this bestselling book offers common sense methods that allow you to let go of depression and tap into natural joy.

Happiness, he says, is not ‘out there’ but within, a state of mind that is independent of circumstance: ‘If you begin to see that your thoughts are not the real thing – they’re just thoughts and as thoughts they can’t hurt you – your entire life will begin to change today.’

5 languages of love gary chapman

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The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts (recommended to client couples – very good book)

If your relationship is struggling, this book will help you to find ways to gt back on track. Practical ways to improve rapport and reconnect.By learning the five love languages, you and your spouse will discover your unique love languages and learn practical steps in truly loving each other. Chapters are categorized by love language for easy reference, and each one ends with specific, simple steps to express a specific language to your spouse and guide your marriage in the right direction.

what I know for sure Oprah

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What I Know for Sure

Oprah has that amazing skill of connecting with most people. She has experienced a lot in life and is one of those people that learns the lessons. Organized by theme—joy, resilience, connection, gratitude, possibility, awe, clarity, and power—these essays offer a rare and powerful glimpse into the mind of one of the world’s most extraordinary women.

feeling good david burns
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Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy

The good news is that anxiety, guilt, pessimism, procrastination, low self-esteem, and other “black holes” of depression can be cured without drugs. In Feeling Good, eminent psychiatrist, David D. Burns, M.D., outlines the remarkable, scientifically proven techniques that will immediately lift your spirits and help you develop a positive outlook on life.

why does he do that lundy bancroft

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Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men (most recommended for clients in abusive relationships).

Women in abusive relationships tell themselves excuses every day. Now they can see inside the minds of angry and controlling men-and change their own lives. In this groundbreaking book, a counselor shows how to improve, survive, or leave an abusive relationship.

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