Boredhousewife.com? There seems to be a trend emerging. It’s been emerging for some time now but it’s not really something that is an obvious topic of conversation. Bored housewives who are wondering if there is more to life than being a slave to others. Many have lost themselves in the process and have become resentful of their menial lives. More and more married women are now engaging in secretive affairs to try regain that spark of passion that is long gone in most long term marriages. It’s sad but it’s reality.
I know of many women who have claimed “I am ripe for an affair”…they are pretty much there for the picking. An opportunistic man who picks up on this woman’s unmet needs and throws compliments her way may be on to a good thing. Well..if ‘no-strings attached’ sex is what he is after.
This is increasing in popularity. Swinging parties are where couples get together and swap around and act out their fantasies. It is happening all around the UK and it’s growing. Many couples get turned on by the idea that others still find them both attractive. This can only work of course, if your husband is willing to try new experiences with you.
Married women having affairs is also on the rise. Women want more from life and they expect more than their counterparts fifty years ago. Women are starting to see their own needs as just important as everyone else’s in the family…and why shouldn’t they?
Gone are the days where the woman eats the leftovers and serves her husband the larger portion..if she ‘serves’ him at all. How things have changed!
Men are still coming to terms with the changing dynamics of modern relationships and they are often complaining about how little time their wives spend with them. I have met many male, married clients over the last few years who work and look after the kids while their wives are at the gym or playing hockey. The shift is noticeable and of course, this is causing a different type of problem in relationships.
Think about this:
If you have a happy relationship with your husband and you are good friends, nurture what you have. The grass isn’t always greener and it is easy to lose perspective when you are feeling bored and resentful. Before any deceit, try to spice up your marriage together. Some may suggest that swinging is the answer, but again, I have seen strong relationships destroyed by swinging as it just takes one partner to show a preference to a stranger to start the ball of destruction and contempt rolling.
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No relationship is perfect…no particular person is perfect. You may just be trading one set of problems for another set in your pursuit for satisfaction.