How To Be The Best Version Of Yourself

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Life poses many difficulties and sometimes, the human mind simply isn’t strong enough to resist temptations. However, this can lead you down a dark path and you could find yourself in a position that you’d never even imagined someone could be in. It’s not unusual for someone to do something selfish and believe it or not, it’s not the end of the world either. Just because you’ve done wrong before, it doesn’t mean that you can’t strive to be a better person from here on out. We understand that it can be difficult to turn your life around, so take a look at these tips on how to become the best version of yourself so that you can live your best life.


Bad decisions in your life may have upset those that are nearest and dearest to you, and perhaps because of your actions, you have lost their trust. It will take time to regain the trust of those around you, but sometimes simply apologising can make the world of difference and take that necessary step forward to repairing your relationships. Showing the people that you love that you’re aware of what you’ve done and are trying to make changes to your behaviour will help rebuild bridges.

Admit you’ve got a problem

One of the biggest challenges you’ll face when turning your life around is admitting you’ve got a problem. The first step in becoming the best version of yourself is admitting you need some help with turning your life around. For example, if you’ve been struggling with drug abuse, you could visit the Help 4 Addiction website to find out the steps you should be taking to tackle your problem. Once you’ve addressed your problem and admitted your faults, you can take the right actions to turn your life around.

Do something selfless

Fighting your issues isn’t going to be something that happens overnight, and this can take a toll on your mental health. Feeling like you’re not going anywhere fast can quickly lead to reverting back to your old ways. However, doing something selfless will give you feelings of empowerment which, in turn, will help motivate you to continue your journey. Not only that, but your behaviour change can also help mend relationships that may have previously been affected. Perhaps you could volunteer to help those in need, donate money to a good cause, or sometimes even donating your time to those who need you is enough to make a difference in the world.

Take positive actions

Finally, changing your life for the better takes more than simply stopping your bad behavioural habits. It’s important to make waves that will lead to a brighter future. Things such as finding yourself a stable career, settling down in your life with someone special, and being money conscious are all great examples of positive actions that you could be taking.

Making these changes in your life isn’t going to be easy. However, with determination and the right support group, you can become the best version of yourself faster than you may think!

Mandy X

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  2. HI there Mandy,

    Thanks for sharing these great tips on how to be my best version.

    I’ve done so much research on how to become a more heightened person and keep and sustain a positive energy but nothing has worked yet.

    Although this post was very helpful I’m worried I have limiting beliefs, I read it somewhere on another blog.

    So basically I want to get rid of these limiting beliefs and raise my vibration, I came across this program I think might help.

    But I need to get your opinion Mandy, because I don’t want to get ripped off.

    The course is very cheap, I read it on a review at this site

    I just want to know if it’s legit or not?

    Can you please let me know, thanks a lot.


    1. Hi,
      It looks good but I would only know for sure if I tried the product myself. The Law of Attraction has some great principles that I definitely think help people. Chakras – I don’t know wnough about this but always open to this sort of thing. If you do try it, let me know!
      Regards, Mandy

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