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Signs your wife is going to divorce you

Signs your wife is going to divorce you

  Signs your wife is going to divorce you I have noticed that the lead up to many divorces takes a specific pattern. I am focusing on the emotional and mental journey that the female goes on in the lead up to divorce. There can…

Trapped in an unhappy relationship?

Trapped in an unhappy relationship?

    Stay or go? It seems illogical to stay in an unhappy relationship that leaves you miserable more often that not yet many of us do just that. There are so many complicated reasons behind why we stay in situations that bring us down.…

Staying in an unhappy relationship

Staying in an unhappy relationship

  Staying in an unhappy relationship Why is it that so many of us stay in an unhappy relationship? I am guilty of this and I have met numerous people, personally and professionally, who stay in a relationship that leaves them feeling miserable most of…

The end of a relationship

The end of a relationship

The end of a relationship The end of a relationship can be one of the hardest things to go through. In a way it is like a bereavement-a loss that entails readjusting our ideas about the future. It is so easy to be plagued by…

Unhealthy Relationships

Unhealthy Relationships

Unhealthy relationships A worrying trend that I have witnessed is how many people stay in unsatisfactory relationships. They do this because they would rather be in a sub-par relationship than be alone. In this day and age where people are a lot more open minded…

Relationship Breaks – Do They Work?

Relationship Breaks – Do They Work?

  Sometimes the ones we love are the same people who drive us up the wall. When the tension and resentment builds up, it can begin to take a toll on our enjoyment of the relationship. If it becomes unbearable, some couples opt for a temporary…

When To Let Go Of A Relationship

When To Let Go Of A Relationship

  When to let go How do you know when to let go of a relationship? It can be hard to say good bye to something you have invested a lot of emotional energy (and possibly financial resources)into. The longer we stay the harder it…

How to cope with the end of a relationship

How to cope with the end of a relationship

  The end of a relationship Just because a relationship has ended, it does not mean that something beautiful isn’t around the corner. The end of a relationship creates space for something else, at the very least for yourself and who you are… And from…

Loveless Marriage

Loveless Marriage

Loveless Marriage What do you do when you realise that you are in a loveless marriage? The affection has disappeared, the sex is gone and you live together as virtual strangers in the same home. Sadly, this is a common state of affairs and a…

Contemplating divorce?

Contemplating divorce?

  Thinking about getting a divorce is a huge step and one of the most stressful life experiences that you can go through. According to Holmes and Rahe’s stress scale, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Holmes_and_Rahe_stress_scale, divorce is the second most stressful life event after the death of a spouse. So,…

Should I stay or Should I go?

Should I stay or Should I go?

How do you know when enough is enough? I’m going to give you a few pointers to help you do a health check on your relationship. There is a theory that suggests we need five factors to give a relationship a good start.   Five…