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How To Spot an Emotionally Unavailable Person

“Emotional unavailability is only attractive to people who are emotionally unavailable themselves.W hen we are truly ready for love, we don’t tolerate people who aren’t ready to meet us there” – Mark Groves   Awareness of what constitutes an emotionally inhibited person may save you a lot of grief in the future.  Dating problems often stem from not knowing how …

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How to ruin your relationship

There are sure fire ways to ruin your relationship. Who knows, you may already be on your way to that relationship breakdown. If you quite like the person you are partnered up with, here’s a list of things not to do: Ignore your partner’s needs Being selfish is a brilliant way to irritate your boyfriend or girlfriend. Bring yourself a …

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Cheating – is it selfishness or insecurity?

There are three types of people that tend to cheat in relationships: Selfish people Insecure people Narcissists There are many reasons why people are unfaithful and each situation is unique, there are however some commonalities. We all long for two things – security, safety but we also long for adventure and fun. It’s a constant balance between the two and …

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What is detachment disorder?

What is detachment disorder? Do you sometimes feel as if you are on the outside looking in? Do you tend to put up emotional barriers to stop other people getting too close? Are there times when you lack empathy for what others are going through – especially those closest to you? If you have answered “yes” to any of the …

Dealing with the Haters in life

  Dealing with the Haters in life It’s not about you – don’t personalise Haters have their own problems. Don’t make their problems your problems. When they are mean they are giving you a ‘taster’ of what their inner experience of life is – angry and miserable. They feel that way all the time – feel sorry for them! Hate …

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Are you ‘Unplugged?’

Are you ‘Unplugged?’ Every time life deals us a negative blow, we withdraw a little. We toughen up, we cultivate a thicker skin. Our emotional baggage begins to grow and so we buy more suitcases. One labelled “emotional unavailability”, another named “lack of empathy” and perhaps another tagged with “I won’t let anyone get emotionally close to me ever again”. When …

People with no empathy

  It really hurts when someone that you once respected, that you thought would do the right thing, shows their true colours and becomes vindictive and malicious. Unfortunately, it is an experience that many of us are familiar with. Today has been a crazy day of dealing with unscrupulous people and it got me thinking… How can some people act …