BABCP Qualified Therapist/counsellor in Guildford, Surrey.UK
At the beginning of the year there can be a lot of cosu around feeling good about yourself, and because of this, we can then put pressure on ourselves to make some changes. However, often just taking decent care of yourself can allow you to …
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent” – Eleanor Roosevelt The truth is that there will always be someone who is trying to tear you down. They may be overt with their belittling behaviour or they may be passive-aggressive. Passive-aggressive behaviour can …
What do you fear the most? Is it being alone, being poor, being rejected or something else? We all fear something and we develop behaviours to help us avoid these real or imagined outcomes. Sometimes the plans we create work well for us but often …
Instead of saying “I am sorry” try using these different phrases – they are far more empowering: I am sorry I am always late – Thank you for waiting for me I’m sorry for being so sensitive – Thank you for being accepting of …
How to build trust in yourself 1. Recognize that all humans are comprised of “good” and “bad” parts. In other words, we’re flawed beings. 2. Accept your dark, unsavory, and primitive parts. Change what you can, and accept that you will never be fully evolved. …
Tools to Raise Your Self-esteem Here are 25 ways to raise your self-esteem: 1. Figure out what your problem is. Realize your problem isn’t who you are, it’s what you have used to protect your physical and emotional well being. It’s hiding who you are: a beautiful …
When we mix up practical problems with emotional issues, we make life a misery for ourselves. You may worry about being a success at work. That’s the practical problem that can be problem-solved but as humans, we tend to place an emotional interpretation onto practical …
Self belief is the edge that you need to get ahead. In a world where many people have degrees and academic qualifications, it’s self belief that will take you that bit further. Self belief means that you are willing to take risks and champion yourself. …
Are you feeling like you’re losing touch with yourself just a little bit lately? Because if you are, then you can join the queue. If you think back to the good old days where you’d go to school, come home and eat snacks on the …
Do you feel “good enough”? This sentence “I am not good enough” is one that many of us tell ourselves on occasion. Sometimes we don’t even realise that we feel this way about ourselves..but consider the following: Do you change who you are for the …