Be yourself in a world full of haters. It’s the tougher option for sure. It’s so much easier to give in to peer pressure, to want to people please and be liked by everyone. We all know though, you can’t please everyone all of the […]
True self confidence comes from the way you see yourself, not how others see you. When you build self confidence to a good level, you like yourself irrespective of what others think of you. Your self worth does not come from achievement or external validation. […]
I’ve never been good with showing myself compassion. A lot of negative message growing up taught me to be incredibly self critical. I didn’t like myself at all and it’s taken 35 years (minimum) to get to a point where I can show myself a […]
So what’s the difference between self esteem versus self confidence? Self esteem is created by external validation and self confidence comes from within. Albert Ellis, a famous Psychologist was once quoted saying, “Self-esteem is the greatest sickness known to personkind because it’s conditional”. Self esteem […]
Developing Qualities of Inner Compassion Being self critical can be very stressful and make us feel worse. One way of coping with disappointment and our ‘inner bully’ is to learn be compassionate to the self. This requires a number of things from us: 1. Valuing Compassion: Some people are worried that if they are compassionate with themselves they may […]
You want to know the one thing that you should NEVER give up, not for anyone or anything? The simple answer is your self respect. Never give this up for anyone. I have seen people sell their souls to make more money, cut off their […]
I am writing this blog post with teeth whitening strips on my teeth. I reckon if my inner body parts won’t play ball, I may as well make the most of the parts I can control. Psychological warfare against an ill body is incredibly important, […]
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