emotional wellbeing Mandy Kloppers

Your dream life and a really fluffy blanket

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We all have this dream life we see before our eyes when we close them. We kind of know what we want from life, what we want to look like in twenty years and what we want to be doing, and how we want to live. Maybe we don’t know too much about the details, but either way we almost all dream of some sort of healthy living, with a good work-life balance and a lot of time for ourselves, our minds, and our bodies. We also dream to have at least enough money for an easy life, and that is a fair dream.

But you already have the life of your dreams If you convince yourself of that. So how do you romanticize your life, and how can a fluffy blanket help you with that?

It’s all about symbols

If you follow those new trends online, you’ll see that almost everyone drinks green juice now and brings those fluffy blankets with them. It’s kind of symbolic for this perfect life – the life of a person who has no problems, and who follows a strict and healthy routine, has much time to themselves, and gets everything done in time and without struggle or worries.

Of course, this is an illusion. Nobody is perfect, and nobody will ever be. But sometimes we underestimate the power of those symbols. So, if you feel like having a fluffy blanket for your morning diary is part of your dream life, then you should get such a blanket right now and turn your life into reality. The same goes for all the symbols. Don’t spend too much money, of course, but enough to convince yourself that this is your dream life.

If you feel like owning a throw blanket is something only successful people do? Get one now, and feel your success.

Mindset is key

That’s the secret of all the people you might look up to at the moment. The mindset is the key to everything, and it can get you just about anywhere. Your will can get you anything, so you shouldn’t let your fears or your anxiety hold you back.

Your mindset is also the reason why the previously mentioned symbols will most definitely work. It’s a way of tricking yourself into thinking you’re already this amazing, luxurious person – and that will then motivate you to adapt further to that lifestyle, take better care of your health and get your work done when needed.

There’s no shame in fighting for your dreams and fighting for them hard. Do anything you can to get there, and if it involves making a smoothie or buying a fluffy blanket for your confidence then so be it!

At the end of the day, it’s all up to you. You can get anywhere; you just have to try hard. So, take control of your life and go out there – fight for your dreams right now, and watch yourself become successful and unstoppable.

Photo by Amin Hasani on Unsplash

Mandy Kloppers
Author: Mandy Kloppers

Mandy is a qualified therapist who treats depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, trauma, and many other types of mental health issues. She provides online therapy around the world for those needing support and also provides relationship counselling.